I am a member of what is termed, “Western Civilization,” so it ill behooves me to make comments regarding those of Asian or African regions of the world which over the centuries have evolved their own ideas pertaining to the act of marriage. After all, we Christians and Jews have murdered millions of people because they had differing religions. We don’t have to get into the entire story of the Holocaust which is a tale of murder, slaughter, horror and death. So, I tend to be careful when discussing religious behavior in other parts of this planet. But, every once and a while, I just have to shake my head in wonder how any humans can behave to those who seek to get married. I do understand that way back in the history of Western Civilization young folk had to get permission to marry from their parents, but that was a long time ago and today we are in the 21st century.
But, just about every week there is one or another story from Pakistan in which young people want to marry against the wishes of parents, and the end result is –Death! Muafia Bibi decided, for one reason or another, that she wanted to marry a 30 year old guy who had just ended two prior marriages. Anyway, mom, dad, her uncles and grandpa lured the newly married couple to the family house, and then proceeded to kill both of them. Just a simple case of getting hitched without permission.
In another example, a 20 year old girl rejected the marriage proposal of a 26 year old guy who proceeded to douse her with gasoline and set her afire. Just some further love tales from Pakistan.